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  In my case, I have learnt that the pain and loss of a broken intimate relationship can be brought to an end, by establishing another relationship and work towards it being successful.  Yes, it does not mean that the pain will not continue to linger on for sometime, but sometime is better than all the time or most of the time.  I would argue that, just as how the past needs to gradually recede into the distant past, so that the present can take root and be nurtured into giving birth to the future.  So must a relationship which has ended, be allowed and encouraged to lose its primacy, the amount of conscious and subconscious space and time it occupies in parties lives/living.  This creates the necessary conditions for each of the primary persons - partners and any children - to make the changes and adjustments to building the different lives they need to establish.  To have new and different structures and functions in their living.  I have learnt that, the sooner we - and probably mos