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  I have come to learnt that, for me, unless I could easily or readily change my work/career appointments and demands to meet any childcare demands.   It would be the norm for the former to be prioritised over the latter; to the great chagrin, frustration and annoyance of my dear wife.  I have learnt that I had, during the time when it mattered most, not given sufficient consideration and weight to my wife's work/career commitments.  I have learnt, on reflection, that I had devalued and marginalised her commitments, and, ipso facto, her. Yes, I have learnt that, whether I am always aware of it or not, it is very likely that I have taken my partner for granted.  Not least in my taking it for granted that she will carry out certain duties within our home.  And yes, when I apply my intellect to analysing how our home functions.  I have come to learn that my partner does most of the work, and that it is more than likely that I both consciously and subconsciously gives too much weight t