Not when by remembering them, we induce in ourselves, a state of genuine or feigned solemnity. And, for those who were related to and or friends and close acquaintances of the dead, genuine grief. But, we might still ask ourselves, why remember at all, if it is going to be an occasion of sadness and relived pain, another episode of experiencing our grief, annually? What is the point? What is the point, unless the remembrance is going to be a celebration of happy times having being spent with the now departed? Not so with more joyous celebration, such as that of two people having shared their lives, for better and for wose, together, and having stuck it out in thick and in thin, as it were. Say, for example, a man and a woman, having come together, getting married, having children and caring for them and watching them grow up into adulthood. Think of the sacrifices, the stresses, the hardships and uncertainties such a couple, in any part of the world, will have