AN ENIGMATIC AND POIGNANT JOURNEY AROUND MY AGEING AND EVOLVING MOTHER! PART 116.

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Reminding myself that, though she is a major part of my emotional and psychological functioning on a daily basis, it is really others who are carrying most of the physical responsibility for her day to day care. 

It is S, her main carer for the past many years, who is there early in the morning, come rain, sun or snow. 

To provide her with her breakfast and assists her with her hygiene needs. It is her, S, who is usually there at lunch time to give her her lunch. 

And it is S who is there for her at dinner time and who is usually the last person who sees and interacts with her each day. 

It is S, with whom she has a very strong attachment to my dear mother. 

It is she who has let it be know that she sees my dear mother as her own, and it is she who has been going the extra half a mile, a mile even, to offer and take her to hospital appointments at times. 






It is her her who sometimes orders her repeat medication for her. It does not matter that none of this devotion to caring for my dear mother does not prevents her from harbouring and sometimes expressing unjustified negativity towards S. 

Yes, there are times when my dear mother's too often repeated dissing of S gets on her nerves and causes her to question whether there is any joy in her continuing to care for her. 

But S is able to bounce back and continue to serve and care for my/our dear mother.

Probably in the manner of a parent expecting too much from the daughter or son who is always very close to her/him, and is always helping and trying to help.  

But still tends to unfairly reprimand them for their occasional failure to live upto what is expected of them. 

To be continued!










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