THE THE PHYSICAL ENDING OF AN ENIGMATIC AND POIGNANT JOURNEY AROUND MY AGEING AND EVOLVING MOTHER! PART 157.

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So, here we are at Holy Trinity Church on a mild Tuesday mid-morning on 8th February 2022. 

Finally, the long awaited day has arrived. Today is the appointed day for having the funeral service of my dear, now departed mother. 

It has been a full month and 10 days since she has, sadly, but expectedly died or, more euphemistically, passed from the domain of the living to the domain of, yes, let us, for now atleast, say, the departed. 

Having made my way, at times tenuously and impatiently, as having to contend with traffic delays due to the congestion arising from the transformation of the area for the impending Commonwealth Games, to the blessed church. 

I awaited the hearse and its convoy taking the mortal remains of my dear mother to the service to arrive. 

Within 15-20 minutes it pulled up on Trinity Road, with it and the attending limos making their parking at the side of the road as unobtrusive as they could. 






Thus minimising the inconvenience they caused to the traffic going hither and thither. Within no time, as it were, the worker in charge alighted and went into the church to make the necessary arrangements for the 'bringing in of the body.'  

While the other workers went about instructing the now gathered 'pall-bears' from members of the family. 

With the coffin being expertly removed from the hearse, it was, within a matter of minutes and with some breathing in and out of myself and the other 5 pall-bearers, strategically placed in from of the lectern, as the Revd. 

Pitts conducted the required singing according to the 'Order of Service' pamphlet.

And even before I took up my position as one of the selected relatives honoured to wheel the coffin into the blessed church. 

I began to see relatives whom I have not seen for some years, due to the not unusual periodic estrangements, for one or other reasons, between relatives of any family. 

To be continued!



    The Poignant Moment which is the Death-right of All of Us.






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